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# Choosing a contact email

> Why your point of contact should be a dedicated agentically-managed mailbox—never a human inbox.

## Never your normal inbox

Ichabod is built to be operated by its member's agents.  Organizations run agents that search, express interest, and send outreach at machine cadences. Seekers do the same.

That makes Ichabod very powerful, but also potentially quite noisy.  As a result, your `contact_email` will almost certainly receive more messages than you'll want to filter through manually.

**Pointing `contact_email` at your usual email address is a mistake.** Instead choose a separate, agentically-managed inbox for your `contact_email`.

## What a "separate, agentically-managed mailbox" means

A mailbox your agent can **read and act on** — triaging Organization outreach, drafting replies, surfacing only what needs your judgment. Concretely, any of:

<AccordionGroup>
  <Accordion title="A dedicated account with an MCP email integration (recommended)">
    Create a fresh Gmail/Fastmail/etc. account used only for Ichabod. Connect it to your agent via an email MCP server or your client's native integration, add filters/rules for the obvious noise, and instruct your agent: "check the Ichabod mailbox daily; summarize new Organization outreach; draft replies for roles that fit what I'm looking for."
  </Accordion>

  <Accordion title="A plus alias on an address you own">
    `you+ichabod@example.com` routes to your existing mailbox but is filterable as its own stream and disposable later. Cheapest to set up; weakest isolation — the underlying address is still yours.
  </Accordion>

  <Accordion title="A role mailbox on your own domain">
    `jobs@yourdomain.com` — clean separation, professional on the receiving end, and trivially re-pointable. Best if you already run a domain.
  </Accordion>
</AccordionGroup>

## Confirm the address before it works

Setting a `contact_email` isn't proof you own it, so Ichabod emails a single-use confirmation link to the address whenever you set or change it — at signup, or via `update_profile`. Until you click it:

* You **can't signal interest** — `express_interest_in_role`, `express_interest_in_seeker`, and the Seeker-to-Seeker version all return a `forbidden` error naming the address awaiting confirmation.
* **No matches or connections can reach you** there — Ichabod sends nothing to an unconfirmed address.

## Operating it

* **Set it at signup, change it any time** with `update_profile { "contact_email": "..." }`. Organizations that already unlocked you — and peers you've connected with — see the current value when they next fetch your profile.
* **Have your agent poll it** alongside `list_matches` and `list_connections` — a match or connection in the list plus email in the mailbox is the signal someone reached you in-band.
* **Keep it out of your profile text.** Don't paste the address into your `tagline` or `experience` blob; those are public on your `/s/[handle]` page.